Sacred Relationships with men – How to resolve the unresolved with the Primary He and make use of his reflective function for you, in you.
I’ve been relating deeply and openly through feeling based relating with many She’s over the past 4 years and because I am a He – I have been intrigued to learn and witness some of the patterned behaviours coming up again and again that arise within and from her body to help her resolve the unresolved with Man, which is the primary He,(either her father, uncle, grandfather or brother). I’ve come to know that each unresolved trauma has a primary experience, a root and there was always “another” there imparting hurt or not meeting natural needs and in relation to still not finding that “perfect” Deep Love I want to share the following:
I deeply feel that She’s of the western cult programming are, through reactivating and re-membering the deep and wild powers of Love through their Wombfield, to set the new norm for Love, for Life, for real, raw and fierce Love that shows up again and again holding the frequency field that is in Syntropy, Self Sovereignty and not entropy based on lack, fear and furthering trauma from being addressed and resolved.
I also feel that in order for this to come about as a transformative form of Love healing both men and women internally from their entropic programming that it is paramount that She deeply resolves her own unresolved with the Primary He in her Life so she truly can become that self embodied field, reenabled to transform all pain, all hurt, all trauma, all suffering, all stories back into Love and from that being able to hold the field for relating with men, intimately or casually.
The question is how does She do the work on her hidden internally unresolved with Men, with the world of Man, the patriarchy, the matrix, the artificial world of time and money? So She can become free of all her patterned behavior of the past where she was repeating the same stories through many different relationships.
What was She, that little girl, really looking for?
In “Illuminating the Absence of the Divine Masculine Presence in the primary He – the Absence of Deep Love and the hidden traumas resulting from that”, I share how She’s can discover as to why they are again and again (fatally) attracted to another He and why we “fall in love” instead of discovering what wants to become resolved through the reflection of him in her.
If these sharing trigger any feelings in you know that i am reflecting unresolved in you around your primary He, your unresolved with your patriarchal programming and Please know that it is fully safe in this field of Love and integrity that i embody to reveal these deflections, judgements and reactions. They all hold a story in you for you from you. The question is do you feel Willing to be really real with that and explore them or do you want to keep doing it how you have been? Your hurt is welcomed, your pain is understood, your truth of essence is known and held in me as the Free and Self Sovereign She that is your nature.
and to add, of course, equally this work within is for Men to engage in Willingly to resolve their unresolved with the primary She.
So, How does She do the work on her hidden internally unresolved with Men, with the world of Man, the patriarchy, the matrix, the artificial world of time and money? So she can become free of her patterned behavior of the past where she was repeating the same stories through many different relationships. What was She, that little girl, really looking for by causing the attraction to connect with yet another He?
it is so relevant for all humans to remember how our internal landscape of the psyche, feelings and emotions is always with purpose performing a function to assist the Self to heal aspects of the past so we can re-member and re-integrate that disfragmented aspect of self back into the present self that is you as a grown up She full of Love for Life.
Through this awareness that your body is reacting emotionally for and in support of you, we can feel assured that any and all not nice feeling feelings are only ever emerging so to call on you to meet them, to feel them, to question what that feeling and that part of you is actually really trying to ex-press. When we learn to stop judging, blaming, avoiding or coping with these real feelings that are really felt and instead return to a gentle self enquiry within as to what is being felt and what is being communicated through these feelings, then we can swiftly come into awareness what memory is associated with this feeling, which most times is actually tied to trauma.
Breaking it apart, Illuminating the core 5 Traumas and Death – opening the roadmap to self healing
There are only 5 Primary imprinting traumas that almost all humans in the western cult are imparted with and so it is actually quite “easy” to discover which trauma is really being triggered in the reflection of his or her behavior in you.
1 – Almost all of us have been Prematurely Separated from Love, from the wombspace, from our placenta or from our Mother and so Deep Love being reflected can trigger profoundly this deep sealed and stored away trauma of our infancy. Fear of ending relationships or “ending love” are all messages from our body that can take us to this place inside of us. Birth trauma is relatively easy to trace as it has everything to do with the World of Man, the external authority that without our consent separated us from our Life cord to Love. This can reflect itself in becoming upset with men, money, work, this fantasy of ‘having to’, while we have free Will. It was our Free Will that got violated so early on in our life and most of us carry deep trauma around the injustice, the not understanding “why” this was done, as we were pure, innocent, love and full of love for Life around us. We came from and through love so when “someone” disconnects us from that we can find ourselves upset with the system, the matrix, with the patriarchy, with the injustice that this World of Man keeps perpetuating; violating Love, violating Life. The External world will reflect this to us in all its entropic expressions where “men” go in against our nature, our environment, glorifying time and money and financial growth. the Government, the so called police, the headmaster, the manager, the banking elite, the pedophelic priests, the rapist, america and its war strikes, the illuminati, the muslims, the zionist jews, the drunkard, the junky, the rebel, the doctor, the politician, the political decision making, the corrupt corporate world, witnessing the poverty, we innately know that all of this is wrong and not natural but now read the above again and make every “the” into “my” as any of these “labels” with associated judgment live inside of our neurochemistry and are existing there to perform a function full of purpose: to indicate the unresolved with external authority violating and raping you, trespassing against you, breaking your free will, corrupting your original innocence.
2 – Almost all of us have experienced a Primary Abandonment which continues to lead to the fear of being left or rejected again, from this we also fear, in-vertedly, breaking up with others because we know deeply of the pain what it feels like to be rejected, to be abandoned. Trauma can thus keep you “locked” in dysfunctional relationships because you don’t want to do to him what happened to you. Love however can’t heal or bridge anything externally because it is not outside where something can actually be addressed. The emotional reaction comes from within. Projecting outward is what is called coping or spiritually by-passing the actual primary imprint that the fear or judgement is speaking of.
3 – Almost all of us have experienced the Primary Rejection where what we felt we wanted wasn’t honored, respected or checked in with. We will thus keep fighting for our (natural) rights, we will work hard to belong, to proof ourselves that what we want is right, justifiable, explainable, we strive to have connections and maintain them in all sorts of ways that stem from fear of losing them.
4- Almost all of us have experienced a Primary Shaming which continues us to seek approval for who we are, what we do. Seeking acknowledgement in the external world with him or her while we can only ever give this to ourselves by finding where our patterned behavior of pleasing, teasing, and or wooing comes from. By asking “is what i am doing here actually feeling natural?” we can open an enormous field of awareness for ourselves which then can lead to “do i want to keep doing it like this?” Naturally awareness brings about choice, but the will is required to gain access to the root cause of still wanting to make him or her accept us for who we are.
5- Almost all of us have experienced the Primary Absence or Unnatural Withholding of the Flow of Love that we innately anticipated as children. We were intrinsically wired to receive love from the grownups around us when we longed for it but it did not show up. We also didn’t know how to ask for it as it should have just been there. These wounds lead to a lot of confusion within knowing ourselves, our self worth. These wounds are often entirely hidden in our psyche as there was simply an absence of action, an absence of nurture, cell contact, reassurance, praising, encouraging. She’s can discover these wounds within by observing how they still long for deep love from Him, with Him, by Him, but love alone cannot wash away the trauma of the past, the yearning however is tied to felt based absence of Love not given by their Primary He when they were young.
Additionally: we have all been programmed to Fear Death by not having been raised that “death” as a concept is actually an intrinsic part of Life, of the greater web of Life. Without death Life wouldn’t be able to grow, change, expand and give rise to the next succession of Life. In our own life we thus can find this programmed fear show up around ending relationships, changing the status quo, change occurring for us by external means, we thus can fear change and become resistant of it, clinging on to what we have now, afraid of loosing what we have because death has thus far meant just death, ending, no more, finished. Life however only works because cyclical change means growth. This “fear of death program” once illuminated within your own internal landscape may shine light on what you hold on to as believe systems that actually fear Life, which is constant change, which means that in the depth of that we fear Love.
*Summing it up, going to the Root of Trauma and the agents responsible.*
The root cause for all current human traumas inflicted, experienced and carried in our cells is the socially engineered entropic patriarchal western cult programming starting at our Birth.
It stems from the hi-jacking of humanities divine, Love orientated Nature, by #wetiko, humanities’ mind-virus. These are demonic non-living parasitic forces that have been manipulating those “in power” or great responsibility for thousands of years so that they suppress humanities self sovereignty by breaking their free will, all for the sake of what seems to be power and control. It has been designed, engineered with great precision by those that seem to have benefited from humans fearing external authority but at the core of all that has transpired over the many thousands of years is that a kleptoparasitic culture has nested itself into our consciousness feeding of our fear, hurt and suffering. Their perceived reign and domain has grown exponentially to the point where the last succession of this entropic metric or matrix gave rise to the Western Industrial Cult with all its sciences, non-living corporations and subsequent programmed authority on “how reality works”, leaving the normal human being prone to its industrial deducation system in which young children are thought what to think and not how to think, let alone; Feel.
All humans ever involved in this hierarchical entropic matrix have themselves been deeply traumatised and are deeply taken over by these demonic forces that have come here to feed of humans through their suffering.
All scarcity, all lack, all wars, all economic crises, all poverty, all injustice, all hierarchy is artificially created, socially engineered and the fear resulting from this is cultivated to reach greater heights and depths within humanities’ collective consciousness.
These parasites, however, are just that. Parasites that depend on their host to live in fear and so keeping humanity traumatised is their greatest tool to ensure their expansion of both their domain but also their greater mission or better put; fantasy.
Studying syntropic succession shows that their fantasy is that after farming humanity, as a host, we are to be made redundant when artificial intelligence and the hosting capacity thereof is large enough that they have an artificial housing reality through which they can navigate, orchestrate and direct the bleeding dry of Life on earth, computers don’t need trees or food.
What they don’t understand or refuse to be able to get real with is the futility of their fantasy, their so called parasitic prerogative. This is because all of Life living on the earth has and will only ever operate on Syntropy, in Syntropy for Syntropy as this is Natures innate strategy and this Life strategy can and will never be corrupted, can never be altered, can never be undone or broken apart (it would also end their existence)
So. How do we heal humanity of this mind virus, of the entropic fear based cult programming?
By returning to Love, remembering our true nature as humans, to rise again within, from Love and heal our own traumas, rapidly, willingly, so we first free ourselves and then we can form communities that help free others of fear, of their trauma and subsequently of their parasite.
All of this collective suffering was ever only to be returned to a Culture of Love and it is now that we are also more free than ever that we can bring the cultural renewal of Love back into Life. In it we will make use of all our collective trauma, all our own pain and suffering stemming from injustice and return it to Love, so that through this, Love will have come to know the wildest depth of Her capacity to heal, Her capacity to restore and return all trauma back into Love.
Love was and forever will be our collective and individual blueprint.
So. Where does this “great work” start?
Internally, in you.
Why is doing the work within the most effective place to start?
Because it is the only place in you where you can have a real effect on Life for Life and when we heal all our traumas and undo all of our cult programming and entropic believe systems we become Free again, free from the parasitic influence that has kept us from resolving our unresolved and Yes, naturally we are going to reinvent everything in service to Love.
May we all walk within the Cloak of RongoMarae Roa, the Goddess of Peace,